Why do women dig older men?

Why women dig older men – Reason # 2: He’s established.

Older guys have already made financial mistakes in their lives. Their experiences led them to be wiser with their decisions in life – as well as with money and other areas.

An older guy doesn’t live with his parents – or at least he better not. He’s independent, responsible and strongly dependable.

Their priorities are more solid, because they’re more mature and know the “ways of the world”. They have their own house, have a good career and are financially capable of supporting a family. All of which women are attracted to.

A well established man is someone she can respect and feel secure about her future.

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Why women dig older men – Reason # 3: He’s a gentleman.

Older guys respects women, he’ll treat her like a queen, which all women grew up to believe is how it should be. He understands basic chivalry and how to bring out the feminine in her.

He’ll do things like, open the door for her, pull out her chair when she sits down…You might find these things corny but, to a woman, it makes her feel special.

Want to be a gentleman? Here are a few tips on how to become one.

1.   Look presentable – have a good physical hygiene, wear clean clothes, shave and put on a good smelling perfume. Grooming is essential.

2.   Have good manners – refrain from swearing or getting into arguments or fights, be polite, behave and act like the guy you want her to see.

3.   Be good to other people – treat others with kindness at all times, help out when you see someone in need. And always treat the wait staff where you go well. She’s watching!

4.   Be considerate – be sensitive about other people’s opinions and feelings. Especially hers.

5.   Be respectful – respect everyone you met, whatever his/her social status is. This works with #3, because how you treat the people that you don’t have to treat well tells her volumes about your character.

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There’s a lot to learn about older guys if you’re open to see it instead of focusing on the double standard that it presents. And you can also drop that feeling of “I’m a creepy old dude” when you approach women.

Especially when you know that you’re exactly what they’re looking for.

A cool part of this is, if you’re young but you follow the example and behavior of an “older guy” – you’ll have it all!

Stay Alpha…
– Carlos Xuma

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