Pick Up Women

Men want to know the secret to being successful on pick up women.

Is it having a snappy pick up line? Is it knowing how to plan an exciting and fun date? Is it being the life of the party and always knowing what to say?

Well, all these things might help, but the true key to success with women is self-confidence. What? You’ve heard this before?

Men hear this so-called secret and say, “yeah, yeah, big deal, you either have it or you don’t.”

But that’s not true. Very few men were born oozing an abundance of self-confidence. Most men have to work on gaining self-confidence and even those who have it, still must work to protect it, by setting boundaries and having expectations for the people they interact with.

Let’s take a look at some of the ways you can bolster your self-confidence, which will automatically make you more attractive and increase your ability to attract women.

Pick Up Women Tips:

1. Practice facing your insecurities head on. What that means if recognize areas where you feel insecure and tackle them. For instance, say you see a hot chick in the corner and are super intimidated and insecure. Face it head on by walking up and asking her for her phone number. Do it no matter what. The goal isn’t what she does – rejecting or accepting you. The goal is facing your fears. Even if the results aren’t ideal (say she’s rude to you), you are better off for facing your fears and taking action. This actually builds your self-esteem.

2. Practice positive self-talk and affirmations. Now, don’t dismiss this as mumbo jumbo, because this is based on real science. I like to write words of inspiration and wisdom on my bathroom mirror with a dry erase marker. That way each morning, I read them and remind myself of my goals.

3. Make a list of your top 25 strengths. These are the things that make you unique and make any girl you date a lucky lady. They could be your loyalty, your hardworking nature, your sense of humor, your sense of style, and so on. Make you list and read it often.

4. Make a list of the top 10 or 25 traits you desire in an ideal woman. You may never find a woman who meets all 10 or all 25, but you will be able to recognize a woman who embodies many of them and realize that she is a keeper. IN addition, this will keep you from being blindsided by some hot chick that attracts you physically, but really has no other characteristics that appeal to you. This reinforces that you have standards and won’t settle for just anybody.

5. Learn to keep a journal. This is a great way to explore emotions and feelings and thoughts and helps you to understand yourself and your motivations better. You should also add tidbits of items that inspire and motivate you. Review your journal frequently and see what worked and what didn’t in past encounters with people.