Illustrated Seduction Techniques

If you want to seduce women, you need an arsenal of tools at your disposal to make sure she wants you as much as you want her. Otherwise, what’s the point?

I call these the illustrated seduction techniques because they create a clear picture of just what you should be doing to spark her attraction and make her want you.

Illustrated Seduction Techniques Tools:

1. Teasing.

The first tool you need to have in your metaphorical toolbox is the art of teasing. Unlike “negs,” which are mean-spirited statements hoping to shatter a woman’s self esteem so she will let down her defenses, teasing is a gentle form of establishing a connection.

(By the way, using “negs” only works for a few guys who have finessed the ability to do this consistently. For the rest of us, it’s an unstable technique that rarely works.)

However, teasing produces much better results. Especially if you learn how to “tease to please.”

This type of teasing is gentle and always done with a smile on your face, so she knows you are teasing. The goal of teasing is to plant a little seed of doubt in her mind about just how much you like her. In addition, your teasing shows that you don’t place her on a pedestal and that makes you different from most men.

2. Kino.

Kino stands for kinesthetic touch. What that means is touching with the intent of arousing. If you want to seduce a woman, you have to know how to touch her. Although every woman has particular erogenous zones, most women also have trigger points that are similar and that respond favorably to kino.

For instance, the back of the neck, right where the hair starts is a very sensual spot. Women also like to be gently touched on the inside of their wrists and elbows. Placing your hand at the bottom of her back, just above her butt is also a very sensual spot. You can put your hand there to get her attention or as you move by her in a crowded room. Women also are very sensitive to a light touch on their ears. You can gently – and briefly — stroke them while admiring her earrings.

3.  Give it the old Push-Pull.

The push-pull technique is surprisingly effective. It involves a subtle and gentle tug-of-war you play in revealing your sexual interest in her. During the push moments, you initiate and make clear your interest, such as grabbing her and planting a big, long sensual kiss on her. A moment later, pull back and say you have to go to work now and grab your keys.

4. The long second.

I call this technique the Long Second because it involves time and how we all perceive time differently.

Some women want to wait a particular length of time before they get physical with a guy. Men in the know can create a false sense of time passing.

One method to do this is by changing physical locations frequently. For instance, if you are at a party, you can move from the bar, to the table and then to the couch.

ON a first date, visit several different bars or restaurants.

This technique is a bit tricky because you have to be very aware of how a woman is responding to you and then decide whether it is time to switch locations. You don’t want her to feel that things are moving too fast, but you also don’t want her to think things are moving too slow.

That is why your ability to distort time is valuable. By changing locations, you can also make your time together more exciting.