How To Get Women

Have you ever heard men or women in their 40s and 50s saying that they wouldn’t trade being 20 again for anything? It doesn’t seem to make such sense does it? Most of us are at our physical best in our 20s. Our energy is unflagging and our health is often at its optimal level. We look good, we feel good, and we think we are invincible.

But there is also a part of us in our 20s that still needs a lot of validation from others. We crave other people reassuring us and approving of us. We sought this from our parents when we were children and now continue to seek this.

But then something magical can – it doesn’t always – but it can occur as we age. We stop needing approval from others. This immediately translates into a huge boost of self-confidence. This confidence actually makes us even more attractive than we might have been when we were younger. For men, that men’s that means their quest in how to get women becomes even easier. That’s what I think older men and women mean when they say they wouldn’t want to be their younger selves – insecure and seeking validation.

But here’s a little secret for you: you can limit the approval you need from others right now, no matter what your age. Stop trying to please everyone because you can’t and you must leave that concept behind. Let’s translate what that means in the dating world and how that will make you more attractive to women as you show that you don’t need and are not seeking a woman’s approval. Here are some ways to do that:

How To Get Women Tips:

1. Make sure you are pursuing your passions and interests. It doesn’t matter if it is lifting weights at the gym, becoming a chess master, or studying 17^th century sculpture, set aside the time to do this.

2. Demonstrate your independence by setting goals that have nothing to do with a woman or a relationship. Have goals, a mission, a personal direction that is just for you and that has nothing to do with women or dating. This makes you extremely attractive to women and also shows you have more to offer than what meets the eye. You aren’t a whole man until you have proven to yourself that you don’t need a woman in your life to be happy.

3. Treat all women equally. I don’t care if she’s on the cover of a magazine in a swimsuit, you need to approach and treat her like she is like any other woman out there. Do not make her into some type of goddess and do not place her on a pedestal. If you do this, even by accident, you will be intimated and will subconsciously be seeking her approval, which makes you unattractive.

One way to cure yourself from doing this is to make sure you incorporate teasing into all your interactions with women. Don’t be rude or insulting, but make sure you tease her about little things. For instance, if she bleaches her hair blonde, you might ease her that her roots are showing, saying something such as “I guess the two-tone look is in right now. I’m thinking of dying my roots red.”

These are some good tips that will stop you from seeking validation and help you improve in how to get women to be attracted to you no matter what your age.