How To Get A Girl To Like You

There is a saying that the first step in knowing what you want is knowing what you don’t want so you will know how to get a girl to like you.

The same applies to women looking for men.

There are certain behaviors that men exhibit which automatically triggers a woman to be turned off. Here are the most common behaviors that will prevent a girl from liking you.

Remember, your first step in getting a girl to like you is avoiding behaviors that will make her dislike you:

How To Get A Girl To Like You — Behaviors To Avoid:

1. Acting clinging, needy, or trying too hard.

All of these behaviors scream desperation. When you try too hard to make her like you or impress her, she will be suspicious and doubt that you are worth her time.

Behaving over eager or over zealous will make you look like a try hard.

If you act needy, like a supplicating jellyfish, your insecurity will come through bright and shiny. This indicates to her that you are a wimp and will smother her. Behaviors like calling her many times in a row or acting jealous will make you seem this way.

2. Bragging or being a big mouth. There is a saying that the truly cool people don’t tell others how cool they really are. If you brag about your accomplishments, it will be a major turn off. Keep some things close to your chest. If you invented the Internet, keep it to yourself. Eventually she will find out about it and think you are even cooler than you are because you didn’t brag about it.

3. Having a bad temper and getting angry easily.

This screams a lack of self-discipline over your emotions. Women can’t trust men with short fuses. Instead, she would rather avoid you than live in fear and intimidation around you.

4. Being a passive, indecisive wimp. This is the opposite of an alpha male. Real men demonstrate leadership qualities by being able to make decisions. This means making a decision, even if later it ends up being the wrong one. That’s okay if it happens occasionally. When you are indecisive, you also show you are probably not a good provider.

5. Showing you are not a good provider. This is apparent if you are cheap, stingy and have zero ambition. If you don’t have much money, then use what you can in a creative way to show you can make do. Have a beachside picnic instead of going to a fancy restaurant. Show that you have some ambitions and goals in life. This will make you much more attractive in her eyes. Being cheap shows you can’t provide and even if she has no intention of marrying you, this is something ingrained in her biology and what makes her attracted to men – the ability to provide.