How to Approach Women

There are a certain group of men out there who have one goal: to pick up and have sex with as many women as they can in their lifetime. Okay, fine. That’s their deal, even if it seems rather shallow and empty life to most men, if it makes them happy, then more power to them.

However, these types of guys, who really just want to use and abuse, make it a bit tougher for the rest of us out there, who might actually have something valuable to offer the women we date. But in our efforts to be successful with women, we sometimes fall into tried-and-true pick up strategies that really don’t reflect who we are as men.

In fact, I would go so far as to say that there are a lot of men out there who haven’t learned how to approach women without being a creep. But there is another way to pick up women that doesn’t involve misleading them and can help you walk away with a woman on your arm and your dignity intact. Here are some tips to help you attract women naturally and effortlessly:

How to Approach Women Tips:

1. Whatever you do, don’t try too hard. A lot of times a typical player dresses in a certain way and uses certain pick up lines and strategies to get women to go home with him.

Don’t do this. Instead, spend that same amount of time and energy learning what women want and then giving it to them. If you try to emulate a pick up artist, women will spot you from across the room and dismiss you before you can even say hello.

2. The personality you have when you pick up women is part of who you are all the time. In other words, you don’t put on some false persona to meet women and then take it off when you get home.

Remember that you might have to do a little bit of faking it until you make it at first, but that is only at the very beginning of you learning how to attract and approach women. Once you’ve done it for a while, you need to concentrate on how to make your abilities and skills with women a part of who you are as a man. It will become part of your personality, in other words.

3. Lose the “grabber” mentality. What does this mean? I’m not talking about groping a woman. I’m talking about having an attitude of trying to grab what you want. Stop looking at how to approach women as your strategy in getting something.

Instead, look at approaching women as something you are giving to her. In other words, get out there with the attitude that you are going to give her a good time. You are going to inject some fun and excitement into her life. You are going to give her a confident man who turns her on.

By paying attention to these tips, you will find that your success with women will far exceed that of the typical pick up artist, who is only out for himself.