How Do I Get A Girl To Like Me

As much as guys brag about wanting to be a “player” and take a million women in life, in reality, most guys are happiest if they have a steady girl in their life.

Sure, it’s fun to be single at times and play the field, but men are content having a woman in their lives they can count on for steady intimacy, affection, and attention.

But that’s sometimes easier said than done.

So many men ask me “How do I get a girl to like me?”

My answer is that men need to solidify their inner game. That can be done my cultivating three key characteristics, or traits, that I like to call the “Three S’s” — self-confidence, self-discipline and a sense of humor. These qualities automatically boost your charisma and answer the question of how can a girl like me?

Let’s take a look at the Three S’s in detail and how they apply to getting a girl to like you:

How Do I Get A Girl To Like Me Tips

1. Self-confidence may be the key to everything you do in life.

The way you feel about yourself will be the ultimate determination of the quality of your relationships. I’ve said that before, but it is worth saying a second time.

Self-confidence is the persona you present to the rest of the world. In addition, it is an outward projection of your security about who you are. Being self-confidence means you like yourself, you have a positive attitude, and you have direction, ambition, and goals and are not afraid of what lies ahead.

Also, you are independent and are not wimpy or needy. You are proud to be you. This needs to be your first accomplishment before you even think of dipping your toe into the dating pool: bolstering your self-confidence.

2. Self-discipline.

This is probably a necessary trait to have if you are going to be able to bolster your self-confidence. These two characteristics complement one another.

Self-discipline means the willingness to do what it takes to meet your goals and achieve your desires. One way to look at it is in the weight loss arena. If you want to lose weight, you need to be willing to eat less, or eat the right things, and move your body. This is not easy. It takes effort. Self-discipline means you have the stamina and perseverance to make that effort to achieve your goals.

It could also be something such as passing the bar exam. That is going to take effort and self-discipline. It is the willingness to sacrifice late nights to study to get what you want. Persistence is also key. You can’t give up too easily.

3. Having a sense of humor

Making a woman laugh means you are halfway there.

This ability not only leads to women dropping their defenses, but it also shows you have a lighthearted look at the world, which is attractive. This trait alone can lead to getting a girlfriend or just getting laid.

You don’t have to be a practiced comedian or even particularly witty, you just need to have a sense of humor and the ability to laugh at yourself. These are some tips on how do I get a girl to like me.