Going in For the Kiss: 4 Easy Steps
Making a move on a girl can be incredibly stressful for a guy. There you are at the moment of truth, and all signs point towards the possibility that she WANTS you to kiss her.
Or does she?
Maybe it’s all in your head and she’s not feeling it yet. Should you play it cool and back off, or take the plunge and go for it?
And being in that place of uncertainty sucks. With your mind racing and chest pounding, you’re literally driving yourself crazy from that “Should I or shouldn’t I?” inner monologue.
While that’s the typical scenario for a lot of guys, you don’t have to be in the same situation.
There is, in fact, a way to effortlessly lead her up to that big moment without a hitch. Here’s how:
Step #1: Ease Her Into It
The most common mistake guys make with kissing girls is that they do it TOO SOON. When you jump the gun ahead of time, it makes the whole thing awkward and stilted.
As a result, she’ll end up feeling what pickup artist Mystery calls “Buyer’s Remorse”. According to him, if you haven’t built enough comfort into the early part of your game, she’ll regret getting intimate with you.
That’s why you need to it make it seem that kissing you falls into a logical sequence of events. It’s all about exchanging pleasantries, getting to know her better and triggering the right emotions.
So, it really boils down to conditioning her mind for the big moment. Otherwise, a lack of romantic atmosphere will just push her into a hasty retreat.
Here’s where a lot of guys screw up their game: they don’t drop enough hints (through playful teasing and what-not) about their romantic interest in a girl right away.
If you’re not doing this the moment you meet her, your chances will dwindle exponentially.
If she picks up on your vibe and decides to keep entertaining you, then it means she’s open to taking it further. Although it’s not an iron-clad guarantee you’ll seal the deal, your foot’s in the door at the very least.
So that’s the main thing – you’ve got to set the stage right away to subconsciously let her know that everything you’re doing is leading up to that kiss.
Think of it as giving her a preview of the “main event”. That way, she won’t feel shocked or offended when you finally move in for the kill later on.