Getting Women to Like You

It’s funny that most men still equate the term alpha male with the biggest jerk in the bunch. It’s a sad state when being manly gets confused with being arrogant and unlikeable.

In a way, being a true man is nearly considered taboo. But that’s the secret to getting women to like you.

But when you spell out what makes a true man and what traits and characteristics are considered manly, most men and women say they love men like that.

In fact, adopting some key alpha male traits is the best hands down strategy in getting women to like you.

Women want a manly man. They want an alpha male. In fact, women are biologically programmed on a primitive level to be attracted to a man who exhibits alpha male traits over a man who is extremely good looking.

The alpha male traits will win every time.

With that in mind, if you really want women to like you, start thinking about and exhibiting the following traits:

Getting Women to Like You Traits:

1. Develop a take-charge attitude. Everyone is attracted to men who are leaders. If you want to be a leader, you need to take charge. You need to learn how to be decisive. This doesn’t mean disregarding others and their wants and wishes. What it means is having the ability to not only be clear about what you want and need, but being able to make choices and decisions that reflect that. Keep in mind that every choice and decision doesn’t need to be the right one. IT’s okay to choose wrong. It’s not okay to waver on your ability to decide.

2. Ooze self-confidence. This might possibly be the most important alpha male trait you can adopt. Being confident speaks volumes. It shows that you have respect for yourself and like yourself as a person. Women are attracted to men who like themselves. In addition, when you respect yourself, it’s contagious – others will respect you.

Being confident also helps you be more assertive, which helps with being certain and decisive.

3. Be emotionally stable. Women can’t abide by a man who doesn’t have enough self-control or self-discipline to curb his emotions. Women want a man who is sensitive and feeling, but she needs a man who has control of his emotions. A crybaby or someone who is too controlled by how he feels is going to send a woman running for the hills.

She needs a man who can be strong for her in this area. She needs a man who can feel, but who doesn’t lose his grip on those feelings and who doesn’t let them overcome him.

4. Be fearless. Women are undoubtedly attracted to men who take risks. They love men who aren’t worried about what other people think. They love it when a man is clearly not seeking anyone else’s approval. They love when a man acts exactly as he wants (as long as he isn’t hurting anyone else this is a turn on.)