Flirting Tips For Men

I’m going to go out on a limb here and wager that the majority of men don’t know jack about how to flirt with women.

Most men think that flirting with women means complimenting them. Nope.

Flirting is an art form and if you really want to learn how to do it successfully, read on and I’ll share my top flirting tips for men using role models that you should learn from and sometimes even emulate. These men have a timeless sex appeal – even 20 years later, we can learn from their behavior and actions:

Flirting Tips for Men Role Model #1 James Bond

Ian Fleming made Bond come to life in the pages of his book and later actors such as Sean Connery brought him to life on the big screen. Women have always loved 00 so let’s look at the traits he has that are worth paying attention to:

• Confidence. That guy is oozing self-esteem. He never seems unsure of himself, but always projects self-confidence.
• Humor. Even when he messes up, Bond always has something witty to say about it, even when it appears he’s on the verge of death.
• Sophistication. He knows the finest food, women, and wine. He has style and that’s why he orders his drink so specifically – shaken and not stirred. He’s not a braggart, though.
• Anger. He gets mad at appropriate times and in an appropriate manner. He doesn’t hesitate to scold a woman when she is being childish or disrespectful to him.

Flirting Tips for Men Role Model #2 Indiana Jones

Harrison Ford plays Indiana Jones in the best possible way, showcasing just what makes him so attractive to the women.

• Confidence. Same as Bond. He isn’t afraid to jump into the thick of things and is sure of himself.
• Humor. Again, one reason both men and women loved Indy, is his ability to find humor in the most dire situations.
• Anger. Princess behavior will piss him off and he’s not afraid to let the woman know. But he’s not a jerk about it, either.

Flirting Tips for Men Role Model #3 Cary Grant

–          Confidence: Again, this is the most important trait if you want to be attractive to women. You have to act sure, feel sure, and project that you are sure. Fake it until you make it. In other words, act like you are confident, until it becomes real. And if you do this enough, it will.

–          Humor: Cary was witty as all hell. He can banter with the best of them with ease.

If these three role models don’t connect with you, then please feel free to choose your own. Watch Clint Eastwood in any of his movies or Tom Cruise in “Top Gun” or even the cocky Judd Nelson in “The Breakfast Club.” Watch them, study them, and emulate them when necessary.

What you will soon discover, and obviously can see in the three examples I gave above, is that these men – or even movie characters — all ooze sex appeal and all have traits in common. Study them and then don’t imitate, but emulate them and you will be successfully following one of my most effective flirting tips for men.