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#3: Don’t Brag Like a D-Bag

This is something I like to call High Value Packaging, which is basically talking about yourself in a way that makes you attractive, minus the flashy bling factor.

For instance, most guys will talk about their jobs, but the common mistake is to drop hints about how much you make. That’s missing the point.

Look at it from her point of view: she’s looking for Alpha Male traits, like leadership, keeping cool under pressure and a results-driven attitude.

Focus on these things when you describe what you do for a living – not the size of your paycheck.

Here’s another useful bit – let her know what your job allows you to do in the other areas of your life, like having time for an out-of-town trip (which implies your disposable income and adventurous side).

Or, if your job sucks, refrain from complaining (whining isn’t hot); you can still turn it around by telling her which career you’re planning to shift to. Then you can segue into a canned routine about your long-term career plans (make sure you mean it though).

As long as she knows you have ambitions, you can still light up her attraction circuitry. Let’s face it – no one likes a bum or slacker.

#4: Lay Off the Negativity

Like I said, women don’t like whiners, so even if you do talk about something potentially negative, you can still put a positive spin to it. Alpha Males aren’t flustered when “it” hits the fan, and it’s the mark of a stable partner.

If you’re on the topic of exes, resist the temptation to trash yours by calling her a “Grade-A psycho.” Women tend to inflate negative statements even if you were kidding, so it might be interpreted as a sign of low emotional intelligence.

You can talk about personal stuff as long as you wrap it up with something positive and not too much detail. In this case you can talk about a previous relationship by saying, “We just wanted different things, and in the end it worked out for her because I heard she’s going out with someone more her type.”

All of these are great ways to bring out your authentic self, but there is one other way to be at your most Alpha. And that’s keeping T-Bleed out of your life, which is a phenomenon that causes guys to lose their testosterone.

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