How To Have A Girlfriend

Most guys are happy as can be if they are hanging with a girl they like. Of course, some guys want to be hanging with a

lot of girls they like, but I think many single guys enjoy the security and guaranteed sex they get with having a girlfriend.

But the tricky part many guys face is just how to have a girlfriend. I’m going to talk a bit about this today.

Just for a little background, this article stems from an email I got from a reader. He had hooked up with a girl in his hometown while he was visiting. They had a good time, had sex, and kept in touch on the phone for a bit after he left. A few months later, he moved back to his hometown. But she is dating someone else.

He wanted to know how to basically seduce her away from the guy she was dating. He wants advice on how to do so while maintaining his poise and confidence levels. So, although I’ll address this article to my reader, it can still be very helpful to all men who are trying to figure out how to get a girlfriend.

How to have a girlfriend Tip #1

So, dear reader, the main thing you need to figure out is just how interested this woman is in you. Call her up and tell her you are in town and set up a time and place to meet. Try to get a drink someplace she’s never been. Don’t make it sound like a date. Instead, tell her you’d love to catch up and have something important to share about your life. Make darn certain that the “important thing” you have to share appears to have zip to do with her. That would just freak her out. Not the best plan in how to have the girl of your dreams.

When you meet, immediately begin teasing her and acting a bit cocky. You might tease her about trying to get you drunk and take advantage of you. See how she reacts. If she responds positively, she might still be interested in you. If she acts annoyed or aloof, she may not have any emotional feelings left for you and will hold you at arm’s length.

In addition, see what she says about her new boy. If she gushes about him, you might want to back off.

You could be really cocky and compare yourself to him and see how she reacts. For instance, you might say, “I bet he can’t rub your back the way I did …” See how she reacts when you bring up that memory. Getting her to remember that experience might spark her interest for you again and might be the key in getting a relationship with a girl.

How to have a girlfriend Tip #2

Whatever you do, don’t bring her current boy up in the conversation, and definitely don’t disparage him. It will only make you look bad if you put him down.

However, if she keeps bringing him up in conversation, feel free to say, “I’d like to hear more about him, but maybe some other time. I’d rather spend some time catching up on you and what you’ve been up to since we were last together.

Keep the conversation interesting and remain both relaxed and also a bit of a challenge. If she does act interested in you, but says she’s not looking for another one-night stand, then you can reveal your surprise – that you’re back in town for good. Then you are well on your way to how to have  a girlfriend.