How To Get Women

It might come as a surprise to you, but most women are attracted to men for reasons that might not make sense logically. We see this when our dream girl is either walking down the street with a homely, overweight guy or when she falls for some creep who makes us want to kick him in the teeth.

A woman is not going to make a list of your pros and cons and see if you add up to a good guy to date. What makes her decide whether to take the plunge in getting to know you, dating you, and even sleeping with you, depends on how much she is attracted to you at a primal level.

Remember that, if you want to really know how to get women, it’s all about how you are able to generate attraction to you on a primal scale.

Because it is up to you and the behaviors you exhibit whether she’s going to take that first step or not. Later, after she’s fallen hard, she’ll back that attraction up by looking at all your other positive characteristics.

That primal attraction will also help your relationship weather storms that might come your way. That will remain when people wonder what she sees in you or when she is worried about losing you.

When you are looking at how to get women, there are a few things that can help you succeed if you know about them. Here are some:

How To Get Women: Walls or Shields

Women worry about their physical, mental, and emotional safety and almost all have constructed defensive shields when they first meet someone.

We all do this to some extent.

If you have enough self-esteem, you can easily break down these walls and shields, by setting your ego aside.

How To Get Women: Posturing

This is not in reference to how poised you stand. It has more to do with the way you present yourself to the world and the impression you leave. It means you can command respect. When you are dating, it means having control over approaching women. That might mean asking for a number or even initiating sex.

It allows you to remain cool, calm, and confident in all your interactions with women. You never come off desperate but remain a bit aloof, which actually increases her attraction.

How To Get Women: Self-interest

It’s a fact of life – as a species designed for survival, we end up – to a certain extent – being self-centered. We can be really good people, but our own self-interest will trump our good intentions time and again.

This doesn’t mean you are a bad person. You need to be able to love and take care of yourself if you want to love and care for others.

What you need to do is show that you can weigh your own needs with those of the woman’s and satisfy her at the same time. This requires a lot of self-discipline.

The above tips are just a few ways that have been effective in my journey learning how to get women and I hope they help you, as well.