Attract Women With Foreplay (step five)

Physical Foreplay: Benefits: Prepares the body for sex, prepares the mind for sex, builds anticipation, desire, intrigue, and excitement, intensifies a sexual session, makes sex more comfortable and more enjoyable, increases intimacy, lets a woman know you care about her, increases the chance for more frequent and more passionate sex, increases the chance for orgasm, and burns up calories.

This is the kind of foreplay that most of us men understand and think this is how we should attract women. This is the type of foreplay that usually takes place immediately prior to lovemaking. Physical foreplay often includes such activities as: undressing, kissing, talking, touching, stroking, caressing, holding, oral sex, manual sex, massages, back rubs, foot rubs, body painting, tickling, pinching, nibbling, hugging, licking, fondling, dancing, talking sexy, and other similar physical activities.

Physical foreplay is not about pressing the right buttons in a predetermined order. There’s no such thing as the perfect way to experience foreplay. Foreplay (like the rest of sex) doesn’t work that way. It is subjective. It depends on the people and all of the factors involved. You have to learn what a woman likes and how she likes to be pleasured. Real sexual know-how isn’t about how many techniques you can name, how many partners you’ve had, or how many positions you have tried. Real sexual know-how is all about knowing what makes a woman tick, sexually.

All of the knowledge, techniques, and positions in the world don’t matter if they aren’t ones that a woman likes. Great sex (and foreplay) is all about learning how to pleasure a woman the way she wants to be pleasured. So, find out how she likes to be stimulated during foreplay and do it that way.

The important thing to remember about physical foreplay is to take your time. Be attentive and don’t rush. There is no such thing as spending too much time on foreplay, but there is such a thing as spending too little time on it. If you plan to engage in intercourse, unless the passion is so strong that you find yourself ripping your clothes off for a quickie, a general rule of thumb is to saturate your lady with foreplay until she verbally asks, physically asks, insists, or begs you to make love with her (good kind of frustration).

When you plan to engage in intercourse, the idea is to spend enough time on foreplay so that a woman is aching for more and can barely contain herself any longer. Intercourse can be very intense, especially if you have the proper buildup, first, so get comfortable and plan to spend some length of time on physical foreplay.

Conclusion: As we have learned, the best foreplay takes on many forms, and it begins long before you ever get into the bedroom. The foundation will always be in the feelings and the emotions you first provide, women over time will complain that you as a man aren’t the same guy that they first met and it’s important to always be “in her mind” the same guy she met regardless of anything else you do. By attracting women foreplay is the most powerful method of keeping attraction alive for the long term. It is always present, anytime you are together with a woman, not just in the bedroom, right before you have sex.

You need to redefine the way you think about how to attract women. Try implementing this new information into any relationship old or new. I am willing to bet that it will make a positive difference and you will have one happy woman.

And remember, if a woman is satisfied with her sexual experiences with you, she will usually make sure that you are satisfied as well.