Attract Women

Most men don’t realize that women do notice how they dress and they do care about what clothing guys are wearing. And this is very important when you’re working on how to attract women.

Now, before you start to panic, it really doesn’t take any more money than you probably already spend on your clothing. What it does take is a little bit of effort.

If you really want to attract women you might even need a wardrobe overhaul. I’m going to give you some tips on how to look good. The most important thing for you to remember is that it is always, always about quality over quantity. If you can simply remember that, you’ll be ahead of the game.

The very first step you need to take is to go to a hip men’s clothing store in a big city. If you live in a rural area, your local department store is not going to cut it for this first step. Once you get the basics down and learn what works for you, you can order online, but for this first step, you need to ask the help of a salesclerk in a cool men’s store.

Believe it or not, I’ve been able to find some really slick stuff at Old Navy stores. They carry nice stuff from unique t-shirts to embroidered shirts.

It might seem like a bit of work if you have to drive into the city for the weekend, but it will all pay off in your ability to attract women. So go to that clothing store and very politely ask a sales clerk to help you find a button-up shirt, jeans, and a tee shirt that will flatter your body the best. Confess, if you must, that you are new to all this.

Then listen to what she says. See the difference that a well-cut pair of jeans can make and how they can take 10 pounds off your frame or make you appear taller or whatever. If you think the clerk is not good at this, try another store. Or just come back another time.

But it’s important to leverage their opinions and feedback. It’s free, after all.

If you really like the clerk’s suggestions, ask her or him for suggestions on a really, really nice pair of leather shoes that are hip but will not look dated in three years. I recommend black, because it goes with everything.

Spend some time finding what clothing and shoes look good on you and then spend the money. Here’s what you should walk out the door with at the end of the day or the weekend if you really want to improve your ability to attract women:

• A great fitting pair of jeans (two pairs if you can afford it). Diesel makes a nice cut and look…
• A very flattering cut button-up shirt (two to four if you can afford them). If you only can get one I would pick a neutral color, such as black. You might want one in black, white and maybe another color that the clerk has said looks great on you…
• A really, really nice pair of shoes. This is where you should spend the bulk of your money. When it comes to the ability to attract women, you would be surprised how many women admit they look at a guy’s shoes and make judgments based on that…
• A great leather jacket…

With these basics, you are prepared to attract women when you go out. If you look good, you feel good.

So start with this basic skeleton of a wardrobe and then expand it as you need to, but make sure every new thing you buy flatters your body and looks good. And remember it is always quality over quantity and it is better to have one great outfit than ten ugly ones.