ATTRACT WOMEN WITH FOREPLAY

So what is foreplay? It is a crucial part of the act of sex. Done correctly, it prepares the body for sex, it prepares the mind for sex, it builds anticipation, desire, intrigue, and excitement, it intensifies a sexual tension, it makes sex more comfortable and more enjoyable, it helps to solidify a relationship through trust, it increases intimacy, it lets a woman know you care about her, it increases the chance for more frequent and more passionate sex, and it increases the chance for orgasm. According to doctors and nutritionists foreplay even helps to burn up calories, burning around 7.5 calories every 5 minutes or so.

I believe men need to change the way we look at, think about, understand, and execute foreplay correctly.

Why Is it So Important: The way I see it, foreplay isn’t optional only when you have enough time – especially when you plan to engage in intercourse. The woman needs time for her vagina to prepare itself for penetration and she needs time to get in the right frame of mind to make the sex better for both of you. Give her the time to prepare, and she will enjoy the experience on an intense level – and so will you. Instead of diving right for her crotch, spend some time kissing her, touching her, and talking to her. This will help build anticipation and desire.

Most women actually prefer it. I believe most women prefer sexual encounters that connect their bodies and their minds. Women want men to connect to their whole being, not just their vaginas. Their genitals are wired to their minds, have sex with her mind first. Reach in and touch her on the inside before you touch her on the outside. I know your lovemaking will reach new depths when you learn to penetrate the whole woman.

This shows a woman that you care about her pleasure, too, and not just your own (a big complaint from women, men are selfish and rude.) Not enough foreplay makes it seem like you don’t care about pleasing her and only care about your own pleasure. Show her that you are a man who not only knows how to attract women, but desires to please women. Once word gets out about you and your abilities, you will start to see results faster. Women will actually view you differently and desire you more. You will become part of a rare breed of men.

While many experts claim that we as men don’t “give” ladies an orgasm, we can sure help give her what she needs in the form of foreplay to help encourage her to have an orgasm. Men who can give orgasms attract women.

It Doesn’t Have To Lead To Intercourse: The name practically suggests that Foreplay must always be a preliminary to other activities, such as intercourse. I believe it would become a little boring and predictable, (like most Beta men) if foreplay lead to intercourse every time. Foreplay can stand alone. It’s a pleasurable activity in itself.

In the beginning of a relationship, couples tend to spend lots of time in foreplay. In fact, they usually tend to spend more time on foreplay than they do on intercourse( hand holding, hugging, and kissing it all counts as foreplay) Once we’ve been in the relationship for awhile, having sex can easily become a pattern of hurried foreplay so we can get to the intercourse quicker. The pleasures of foreplay – the touching, the kissing, the caressing, and the holding are quickly forgotten and missed by a woman.

Try having a night of just manual sex or other activities with no intercourse. Leaving intercourse out of sex can be a new experience, not a frustrating one. Not engaging in intercourse allows you to explore a fuller range of sexual possibilities and pleasures that can be overlooked in the rush to get to intercourse and orgasm. This pattern of foreplay always having to lead to intercourse is destructive one because you tend to become focused on the results of the big “O” rather than the pleasure of the moment of being where you are right now.

So many men wonder why she won’t put out, not understanding why foreplay is so important is fundamental to attract women.