Dating Tips for Guys

Too many guys get caught up in the whole romantic concept that there is truly only one woman out there that is perfect for them. They buy into the whole soul mates idealistic point of view and think that they stand one shot at happiness in love.  Men turn to ask some dating tips for guys to master the inner thoughts of a woman.

Now, I’m not going to discount the idea of soul mates. What I am going to dispute is the concept that there exists only one soul mate for every person out there. There is just too much proof that this is not true.

In fact, I’ll go so far as to say there are dozens, possibly even hundreds of them out there waiting for us. When you think about how many people are out there in the world single and looking for love, these odds just make sense.

With that in mind, let’s take a look at how looking at the world through a perspective of scarcity, versus looking at he world as a place of abundance, affects our dating life. Here are some questions to ask yourself to determine whether you operate from a perspective of abundance or scarcity:

Dating Tips For Guys:

1. Do you look at the world and see endless, limitless options? If so, you are well on your way to success and viewing the world as a place of abundance, with plenty to go around for everyone. If not, start trying to view the world in this way.

2. Do you look around at the world and see that there is enough success to go around? In other words, if you see a friend or colleague achieve success, how does it make you feel? If you feel jealous, you might want to re-evaluate your view of how much success is out there. Some people look at success like a big birthday cake. They worry if they don’t get a piece soon, someone else will take the last one. This is not reality, guys.

3. Do you feel like you have only one shot to get intimate with a woman? If so, you are looking at the world with a scarcity mentality.

4. Are you motivated by a fear of loss and only act when you think you have to in order to prevent losing something? That is motivated by scarcity.

5. Do you look at the world around you and recognize that there are more opportunities that you have time to explore in a lifetime Do you realize that there are more single women than you could possibly date even if you had a lifetime to do it?

If you are motivated by abundance or train yourself to view the world in this way, you will realize that you don’t have time to waste on women who aren’t as interested in you as you are them. There are too many other women and opportunities out there just waiting for you. You will also realize that with so many limitless opportunities and possibilities out there for you, you don’t have time to dwell on rejection or failures.

Remember there are hundreds, maybe thousands more women out there who are probably even better for you than the woman who just rejected you. Don’t waste any more time thinking about it. Get out there and explore.