Get A Girlfriend

You’ve been playing the singles game for some time and quite, frankly, having a great time, but you have recently met someone who you would have to qualify as a game changer. You are now in a dilemma on how to get a girlfriend.

She’s pretty much unlike any other woman you’ve met and you have fallen for her hard.

The good news is, she appears to feel the same way.

You met six weeks ago and have spent every possible second together. You are crazy about her. In fact, you even called up your older brother and mentioned the “L” word. You think you love her. No, you know you love her.

You start fantasizing of all the romantic ways you can tell her this. You imagine a sunset picnic on the beach and a long, slow kiss before you say those three words. You are going to tell her you love her and ask her to be your girlfriend.

Stop. Right there. Men mistakenly think that all women are just sitting there waiting to hear those three magical words. Not true. You need to take a deep breath here and listen to what I have to say about the premature “I love you.”

Get A Girlfriend Tips:

1. Wait at least three months into the relationship before you utter these three words (or write them down and give them to her). Despite what you might imagine, the longer you hold off on saying these three words, the better your chances of having a relationship. There are many reasons for this, including the fact that the initial spark a couple feels for each other is nine times out of ten lust that can turn into something deeper over time.

2. When you say, “I love you” prematurely, you demonstrate loud and clear that you are no challenge for her. Wearing your heart on your sleeve like this actually makes you less attractive to a woman.

3. Make it real. Whatever you do, avoid saying it during sex. This is said too freely and often to be very genuine. And don’t ever say it unless you mean it.

4. Words are meaningless without action. You know the old saying that actions speak louder than words? Show your love instead of talking about it, especially in the beginning. Women will respond to your demonstration of love and affection more than they will to you saying those three words.

5. By waiting three months to tell her you love her, you are also giving yourself a chance to truly get to know her and to catch any red flags that might crop up. For instance, if she acts disrespectful in any way, you might reconsider wearing your heart on your sleeve. It’s always worth making sure that the object of your affections is worthy of your honesty about your feelings.

These are just a few reasons you should wait to reveal those three magical words in order to get a girlfriend. When you have waited and the time is right, you’ll know it and you both will remember that moment for life.