Talk To Women

You’ve finally snagged a first date with that intriguing woman you see in the elevator every day. You know her enough to determine that she’s not psycho and now you want to find out even more about her. Now knowing the secrets when you talk to women is the next step.

Now you are going to take her out and show her your romantic side and most of all, show her a good time.

At this point, you have a few goals in mind for that first meeting. The first is to impress her with your grasp on self-discipline. This means you want to spark her attraction to you but stay neutral when it comes to expressing your emotions and desires.

Talk To Women Techniques:

1. Remember when you are communicating with a women, in the back of your mind, you are looking for any tests she might be putting you through. In addition, it helps you to maintain your detachment and a healthy perspective to be dating other women at the same time. This way you don’t feel like everything hinges on this one woman and this one date. Having this knowledge in your pocket will actually make you appear more confident and self-assured without every mentioning your dating life, which you probably don’t want to do when you are having a conversation with women on a date. No woman wants to hear about other women in your life.

2. Your next step is to plan a simple meeting. Make sure that you are going to do something exciting and different that doesn’t involve you showering her with gifts or spending much money.

Something thrilling will help escalate any sexual tension you feel. Also, remember when I teach men to have a conversation with women, I always emphasize that if you can make her laugh and talk about herself, she will have fun and be comfortable with you.

3. A general rule of thumb I have is to keep the conversation 70 percent focused on her alone. And remember that people who are good listeners, are also believed to be the best conversationalists. Listen to what she has to say. At the same time, look for red flags that might be warning signs for you.

Really listen to her instead of imagining what she looks like naked.

When you are talking  to a woman, you don’t only pay attention to the words she uses, but also pick up on the meaning behind them. For instance, did she talk constantly about her friend’s new baby and how much she loves that baby. That might indicate she’s looking for someone to settle down with and have a family.

If that’s not in the cards for you, that might be a big deal breaker.

Does she spend the entire time complaining about people, her work, her family, and so on? That might be a red flag that she is a malcontent.

The idea is to listen without making a big deal out of it right now. Just make a mental note of it and notice if those subjects pop up again.

The secret in how to talk to women is to remember that no matter what she is saying, she is revealing something about herself to you.