How to Pick up Women

Ever wonder why men who seem like jerks pull women like there’s no tomorrow? Of course, you do. I’d say nearly every man on this planet has at one time in his life seen a girl with a guy and wonder WTF?  Here are some things you need to know on how to pick up women.

What does he have that I don’t?

Why are women attracted to men who seem like jerks. These women will even complain to their friends, or even you, that these jerks treat them bad. So, why do they stick around?

Jerks actually emote the traits and characteristics of a man oozing self-confidence without even realizing they are doing so.

If you want to attract women like the jerks do, without resorting to being a jerk, check out these tips:

How to pick up women Tips:

1. Dump women who cause you any grief or hurt your self-esteem in any way. If someone you are dating is not treating you with respect then walk away. Don’t be afraid to leave a relationship that does anything except build your self-confidence. There are a lot of fish in the sea.

2. Learn to care less what anyone else thinks about you. Don’t seek or desire anyone else’s approval. Ever. You need to find your confidence from inside. Looking for external approval of yourself is one way to lose any self-esteem you might have in an instance.

3. Don’t place women on pedestals or suck up to them. Instead, learn how to gently tease a woman and give her a hard time without really hurting her feelings. Walk that fine line between liking a woman and not adoring her.

4. Don’t ever let anyone – especially women you date – disrespect you in any way. Walk away or firmly stand up for yourself. Don’t hang out with people who don’t treat you with the respect you deserve. This means guy friends, as well.

5. Be in touch with your emotions enough that you can get angry and let others see it without losing your temper and acting irrationally. Just be comfortable expressing your emotions in a healthy way that doesn’t hurt anyone else.

Jerks have these qualities, but what will set you apart from the jerks is reining in some of the behaviors. Don’t be too extreme. Don’t be too abrasive or self-centered. Find that middle ground.

One last thought on the jerk – you could emulate some of those qualities, but to be a true man, avoid these negative jerk traits at all costs:

• Unnecessary and/or over-the-top anger, which shows you are lacking self-discipline.
• Insulting or disrespectful behavior to anyone.
• Any type of abusive behavior
• Acting overly arrogant. Big turn off.
• Hurting someone emotionally on purpose.

If you can emulate the positive qualities of a jerk and leave the negative ones behind, you’ll be able to find that sweet middle ground. When you do, you will be able to attract more women than any jerk or supplicating nice guy out there. You’ve found the key. These are some tips on how to pick up women.